Tuesday, June 30, 2009

WE QUIT!

Mr. K and I are therapy drop outs!
This is the first thing I think I have ever quit in my life!
Back at the end of March I did a little research and picked a therapist, one that supposedly had experience with our situation as well as infertility problems. I now think her resume was a load of BS!
The first session was not so bad, Mr. K and I both went and we talked about a lot of things and we got a lot of things off our chests. But as we went back week after week she seemed to have forgotten pertinent information. Information like: the girls names, the fact they were twins, when they were born, etc.! So needless to say this really REALLY pissed me off!
After the 4th or 5th secession she seemed to stop letting us talk about the girls, even if we clearly wanted too! She kept asking us questions about my parents and Mr.K's mom! And yes I know there are issues there, but I was not paying that woman to deal with my issues with my parents or Mr.K's mom! I wanted to talk about the girls, and ONLY the girls!
How come she didn't get that? And why did she keep changing the subject?
The best part of the whole thing is that during all of our last minute traveling the past few weeks I called and canceled an appointment and she said she would call us back to reschedule. And truthfully I hoped she wouldn't call and then she didn't! Well until yesterday! The best part was the first thing she said was "I guess you’re not planning on coming back?" which gave me the perfect opportunity to say "No, I don't think we will!" then she let me know that she had already mailed me the paperwork to sign off for the insurance company to pay her and to have a nice day, all in one breath! I am so irritated with her I almost don't even want to sign the paperwork when it gets here so she won't get paid, but then again that could be a little much!
I guess she disliked us as much as we disliked her!
But now I just fell jaded and I don't think I am going to try this therapy thing again for a while! I just don't want to...even though I probably need too!

3 comments:

jlwlolared said...

I'm sorry it was horrible, but I do hope you give it another chance with someone else. Its a lot like finding a mate or the perfect pair of jeans, you have to try stuff on and see if it fits you. Also getting on Kevin's insurance will give you more say and choice in who you see. Good luck in whatever you decide!

Lola said...

I'm sorry it was horrible, but I do hope you give it another chance with someone else. Its a lot like finding a mate or the perfect pair of jeans, you have to try stuff on and see if it fits you. Also getting on Kevin's insurance will give you more say and choice in who you see. Good luck in whatever you decide!

hopefulmomma said...

Don't give up on therapy. When you find the right person, they can do a lot of good. Your therapist seemed like a dumb*ss though. I think you should write her a letter and let her know how you feel and why you're not going back. She needs to know and it doesn't matter if she liked you or not. You know, in the name of therapy!

Thanks for the Fredericksburg suggestions. We're dorks too and we are already planning on going to the Nimitz :-) as well as Wildseed Farms- just not sure what else. I'll look up your recommendations though!

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